It's no secret that a man is going to become softer towards a woman as the relationship progresses. Some might say treating your woman like a queen is not called 'being whipped' its called being a man, but others think differently. Some people say it makes them come off as being soft, a pushover, and sad, because a whipped man is a sad man.
Guys who are usually single are the ones quick to call a man with a girlfriend whipped to bust their balls. And if that so-called whipped man is insecure he will start acting up, in an attempt to "prove" he is not whipped.
Some signs people say of a "whipped man"
- She makes all the decisions and plans for you.
- You have joint Email.
- You have no time for friends. If you noticed that it's no longer ok to hang with your old friends and your friends are being replace by her friends. This is definitely a sign of a whipped man.
- You have to pick up the phone when she calls, because if you miss her call you will never hear the end of it.
- She makes you delete your social media websites. And, or she has your passwords for everything.
- You constantly have to check in with her, because she wants to know where you are and what you're doing every hour of the day.
- You can't go anywhere without her because she is attach to your hips.
Many men become whipped because their lives are not actually about anything. If your life isn't about something, it will wind up being about women. You will dress to impress women, take on jobs that you think women will like, etc.
Then when he gets the girl, and is basically guaranteed sex indefinitely, his subconscious says "well, my work is done" and it's time to rest. Many men will then just do the minimum work to keep the girl satisfied. Their girl becomes their whole world. It's revolting. And girls hate it.
Often the girl will then naturally start seeking out new guys who are more driven, more passionate, have more of a direction in life, and the cycle begins anew.
I don't think a guy is whipped if he respects the woman he is with and does nice things for her, but if he sacrifices his values because he lacks courage, then he's whipped.
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