NO RING? 13 Reasons He Won't Ask You To Marry Him

You're ready to become his wife because you've been his girlfriend for long enough. You know he truly loves you, but has not popped the question and you can't seem to figure out why? This has left a lot of women wondering. There are some obvious and not so obvious reason why men are reticent to take the plunge. Below are several reasons that may be holding him back.




He's not ready. And waiting for someone who may or may not want to marry you can seem like a gamble. You'll need to decide if he is worth the wait.

Been together for a few year, and is fine with the way things are. While he was ok with calling you his girlfriend, taking it to the next level of marriage is a whole other story. Doesn't mean he don't love you, but with marriage, it's forever, and he may be scared of that. Don't quite know how to tell you that he just does not want to get married, so when you ask him about marriage he'll smile and say "it'll will be when you least expect it"

We've all heard this saying before "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" You're already playing wife without the paperwork and he already got the pressure of marriage without the absolute commitment. He doesn't want to marry you because he sees no reason to. He has everything he wants - a home, a live-in-maid, a companion, a regular sex partner, a roommate to help with bills. What does he have to gain from marrying you.

He's waiting for a better option. Sometimes you are a "lay-over" girlfriend, a past-time thing until "the one" comes along for him. We've all seen this, where a guy doesn't ask his girlfriend to marry him, but he marry the next chick he gets with.

His parents don't think you guys are a perfect match. He might love you, but by them playing in his ears, he doesn't know what to do.

You're not what he had in mind when he's see wedding bells. Not to say thats there's anything wrong with you, but he might not think you'll make the perfect wife, or mother to his children.

You can't cook, won't cook, or don't cook at all. They saw one of the ways to a mans heart is through his stomach.

He doesn't feel he is financially ready. Being financially secure is extremely important to him.

Witnessed too many divorces, and knows how devastating it is for everyone involved.

You are in debt, and don't want to make it a burden on him.

Was married before and don't want to go back down that lane. He knows that marriage will make things worse.

You are an "angry woman" you put him down, nag, irritates, belittles him, making him feel less of a man. The thought of marrying you makes him sick.

He already said no. Marriage is not for him, but you just wasn't listening, or thinking overtime he will change his mind. NO BUENO!

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