IS HE ABOUT TO DUMP ME?

We've all at some point in our lives has had our hearts broken. And if you haven't, CONGRATS! You are one of the lucky few. Getting dumped sucks. I don't have to remind you of how much it hurts to get an out-of-the blue dumping. Many of us are blinded by the bliss of relationships that we don't see the signs right in front of us. Your gut may tell you something is wrong, but you're not sure what it could be, and this could have your mind running like crazy. You're thinking is he going to break up with me?', 'does he have another girlfriend? You don't know what to do or say. Well, here are some signs your guy may be thinking of moving on without you.

He's started avoiding sex with you, and turns it down every chance he gets. 

He's not affectionate any more. Before, he couldn't keep his hands off you, now he's not as lovey-dovey with you. Keep in mind that in every relationship, especially long-term ones, affectionate somewhat dwindle, but most of the time it signals a bigger issue.

He makes excuses not to spend any time with you. He's always too busy for you, when he had all the time in the world before. He's always making excuses after excuses. You are no longer a priority. This could be a way of wanting to break up with you. 

He never had a problem answering his cell phone in front of you. Now his phone constantly rings and he leave every time to talk in private or he doesn't answer it when you're around. Text messages and secretive phone calls are not a good sign. 

He isn't as interested in talking to you as he used to, because phone calls and texts are getting lesser and lesser. He used to call you several times a week to see how your days and nights are going, but lately, you hardly hear from him. 

He get irritated with you easily. Often blame you for everything, or seem annoyed at everything you do. 

He lied about where he's been for no good reason. Why lie if he doesn't have anything to hide. 

Hardly anything to talk about. The two of you used to share secrets and have intimate conversations. Now the conversations are struggling to stay alive. 

He seems to be picking fights with you. Fights are all but inevitable in a relationship, but he argues with you every time you open your mouth. Fights over the smallest, craziest, dumbest things, he may be trying to find a way out of the relationship. 

He no longer talks about the future with you. He changes the subject when you bring it up.

He no longer say 'I LOVE YOU' and when you say it, he only response is with a nod.

Try talking to him. Find out what's on his mind.  Do not become clingy if he's backing off. Don't disrespect yourself and beg him not to dump you.