You may love your man, but is his sex moves leaving you wanting more? You're hardly alone in this particular jam. We've all had bad sex at least once in our lives. We are all human and we all have different experience levels. The bottom line is that sexual compatibility is extremely important in a relationship. You can't have a satisfactory relationship with someone if your sex life is unsatisfactory.
I've seen and heard of women who drop guys they like because they are bad in bed. You have to take the reins in your hand and train your stallion to be the lover you want. Be the woman who is not afraid to ask for what she want.
Sometimes its damn near impossible to say anything without destroying a mans ego. That is why most women think that it is better to keep silent and thus not hurt their partner, rather than have better sex. You don't have to tell him he suck in bed, because a guy who feels like he's falling short is never going to be confident enough to be good in bed. Loving someone does force a person to try to make it work. Tell him what you want, let him know what you like, and tell him things that you guys can do that would make sex even better. Say things like 'Could we try this?' 'I love when you do this', or 'I would like if we…' A silent lover is an unsatisfied one.
Sex is a two-way street. Don't fake it, because he will actually think that you're enjoying it and you won't get what you need, which will eventually take a toll on the relationship. Maybe you're also part of the problem? He may think you're not so great in bed either! No one wants to be the reason why you pretend to enjoy bad sex. With a bit of encouragement, a bad lover can quickly turn into a terrific one.
We will all learn and with open communication we will all get better. And if all else fails…
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