Signs Of A Selfish Person You Should Pay Attention To

Selfish people are always lovable, nice and really sweet. Unfortunately for you, the traits of a selfish person aren’t easy to notice, because they cover their darker side so well. They could suck the happiness out of you, and all you can do is watch helplessly.

A selfish person is one who cares only for their own pleasures, even if it causes pain to someone else. They have no consideration for anyone else, and worry only about their own comfort. Selfish people are well mannered and nice to everyone, but they’re nice only as long as they get something more back in return from the people around them.

A selfish person think that they deserve to be treated in a special way. They often think that they are better than everyone else and they are not afraid of saying that out loud. They often ask for favors, even if you're just getting to know them.

They give only when they expect to get something back in return. Always expecting more than he or she is willing to give.

They lacks empathy and gives no apologies about it. They make promises they don't fulfill. Either consciously or sub-consciously they always seems unable to "remember" a commitment he or she maked.

He or she wants you to listen, give emotional support and even worry about how he or she is feeling but never take time to listen to how you feel.

A selfish person always has a carefree attitude and takes nothing seriously. Even when you talk about how hurt you feel, they make you feel stupid for making a big deal out of nothing.

You can sense a selfish person’s fakeness when they talk to others. They try to appear very friendly and sweet to everyone, even if you know that they hate the person.

They always squirm out of helping you when you need their help.

If you meet someone who’s a kissass who’s always eager to please you with compliments or fake smiles, stay away from them. A truthful person may seem harsh, but they say things the way they see it. Excessively friendly people almost always have ulterior motives that are selfish.

Selfish people aren’t selfish with everyone. They subconsciously pick and choose the people they would want to use and trample on. They don’t go looking for people to hurt. But just like a wild animal’s inner instincts, if they come face to face with a caring and emotional person that they see as prey, they use them and abuse them until the relationship eventually falls apart or they find someone better to prey on.

Selfish people never change. They just look for someone to use, and quite frankly, they can't help it themselves. So if you're in a relationship with a selfish person, don't try to change them. It will never work. Get back at them by behaving just like how they would behave with you, and whenever you feel like you've got your vengeance and have the strength to move, walk away for good.