SIGNS HE'S NOT WORTH MARRYING.

He lies, lies lies- if he has to lie, its not worth it. I think you should be completely honest in a relationship, because, it makes you wonder what he has to hide. If the lying shows up while dating, it's more than likely it will get worst during marriage.

He treats you like sh*t- Watch the way he talks his mom, sisters and any female that surrounds him. If he's disrespectful towards them, he's not the one, more than likely he will treat you the same. They say you can tell a man by the way he treats his family.

Mama's boy- Now theres nothing wrong with loving your mama, but sometimes the cord has to be cut. If his mom still does his laundry, cook his food, iron his clothe, make his bed, worst of all run his bath(well lets hope he still doesn't live with her) run I tell you, run. Because she's already set the standards high, he will be spoil rotten. Now theres nothing wrong with treating your man like the king that he is, but I'm sorry, his mama doesn't live here.

He doesn't want kids-Well if you feel the same, it's a deal, you're perfect for each other. But, If your biological clock is ticking and he say he's not ready, but lets be honest, will we ever be ready in life?

The talk of marriage scares him- Sorry boo, if you stress a man to marry you, two things will happen, you will have him running off into the arms of someone else (who he'll probably marry in a heart beat) or he will marry you and regret it. I'm sorry, but if a person is not ready, he's truly not ready. When someone want to spend the rest of his life with you, nothing can stop him, he will realize that theres nothing out there worth searching for and that you're the one. So don't waste your time on deaf ears.

He's not motivated- He can't keep a job, or he just don't want to. I'm sorry but I'm no suga mama and you shouldn't be too. You should be holding each other down, you do for me, I do for you, simple as that, enough said.

Sex, sex, sex- Lets be honey, its a big part of a relationship. If the two of you view sexual intimacy differently, it won't work. If he doesn't satisfy you or fulfill your need, no Bueno, you deserve to be happy in every way. 

He's settling- You're his rebound chick, he's only with you because the one he truly love doesn't want him and has moved on. So, now you're filling that empty void,  and while you're seeing love, he's seeing lust. Don't expect nothing more and nothing less.  

He flirts- Even in your presents,  you could only imaging what he does when you're not around. 

It's easy to say duh, who wouldn't know all this, but Some people may not see these signs because they are blinded by love, or they are scared to start over with someone new, or think they can not get anyone better.

If you realize that there are red flag or problematic issues in your relationship, don't ignore them or get yourself thinking that the red flags aren't that important or that someone you love will change. It does take more than that to have a successful marriage.