Once A Cheater, Alway's A Cheater?

Although cheating is quite painful, many people forgive their partners, pick up the broken pieces and start to move on with their lives together, but, will constantly contemplating on whether or not their partner will do it again. A cheating partner can trigger intense levels of depression, low self-worth, and low self-esteem. You look for any hint, search his phone, social media, computer, and watch his actions. Even though suspicion after an affair is normal, you can't rebuild your relationship when you're fearful of your partner deceiving you again.

There are always circumstances surrounding cheating, and every situation is different. There are serial cheaters, and there are people who cheat because of a moment of depression, tough time, weakness, to get their partner's attention, a terrible relationship that is so hard to break off you give up, etc. All behavior is purposeful and people don't do anything without a reason for doing it. Some men do actually learn their lesson, they do it once and never again because of guilt or because they got caught and didn't want to lose their relationship.

The truth is, the relationship will never be the same. The trust, freedom, and respect is gone and may never come back. The healing process can take time, patience and care. Trusting someone isn't easy after they've betrayed you. You want to believe what they say, but it's hard to.

If your partner has a history of being unfaithful and forgiven or they've done it to you repeatedly, they will almost certainly continue to cheat. If they've cheated on every person they've been out with and been forgiven for doing so, why should they stop? A true serial cheater will often see nothing wrong with being unfaithful.

Some people say that, the problem with giving second chances is that once you forgive bad behavior, you effectively condone it.

It's no easier or harder to trust than asking someone who hasn't ever cheated if he would. He may say no, he may say maybe, he may say, "I don't know," But there's no way to know for sure.

Will he cheat again? He probably would do it again, but until he do it again, don't go driving your self mad.