Rushing into having children: Some couples don't give themselves enough time to be married to each other. Once kids arrives, they will have to be the focus of your attention.
Having unrealistic expectation about marriage: Marriage is not always a walk in the park. It may take a while to get used to living with each other and making the relationship work. Whatever problems you had before getting married isn't going to disappear just because you got married. Its how you deal with them that counts.
Getting into debt: Its an additional strain to start off your marriage with bills you can't afford. If you're already in debt start making plans to get rid of it, and get your finances in order.
Letting resentment build up: If something is bothering you, let it known. The worst thing you can do is allow resentment for your spouse to build inside you. It will definitely tear apart your love.
Not giving each other space: Everyone needs time for themselves. Give you spouse the chance to do the same.
Abandoning your sex life: It's part of your job as married people to maintain your sexual health, keep things interesting, and make sure you and your spouse are satisfied.
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