Don't Ever Be Ashamed Of Having Multiple "Baby Fathers"

There are plenty of people who have children with more than one partner. So why are women always defined by their relationships and how those relationships turned out. People can be very critical of women who have children in different relationships.

 Having more than one kids by more than one father is always counted as a negative for woman. She's a whore, a slut, sleeps around, not discerning about her partners, can't keep her legs closed, didn't use birth control, allowed herself to get pregnant, used poor judgement, and a host of others. If men can have children with multiple partners, then why should you be ashamed that you have multiple baby fathers.

It's nobodies business if your kids do not share the same last names. We all know relationships don't aways last. When you have a child with someone it was almost certainly with the expectation that the relationship would last and you would always be together. But it didn't work out, and thats nothing to be ashamed of.

The most important thing is that your children are loved and feel secure. If men can have children with three, four, or five women and not be called names, then you should not be ashamed that your children have different fathers. It would be ideal for all your children to be born into the same relationship. But just because it didn't happen doesn't make you a bad mom. If a relationship doesn't work out after you have a child and you meet someone else and become committed to them or even marry them, you shouldn't have a child with them? I think you should have a right to have as many children as you want with whomever you want to have children with. Having children with one man may be ideal, but this is not an ideal world. If any person is lucky enough to find love after divorce two times and then have the privilege of being a mother times three, then I think that's reason to celebrate.