How To Keep Your Man Satisfied And Happy

The importance of sex in a relationship or marriage should never be underestimated, especially when we hear and read about hundreds of situations where the husband has strayed simply because he could not enjoy sex with his wife anymore! The emotional and physical requirements of your husband must be handled properly if you want to satisfy your man and make him happy

Give him good love: Over and above appearing sexually attractive to your husband be impulsive, unpredictable and flirtatious in your sexual advances. Sex need not be restricted to night and that also on your bed only. With him you need not be formal - in stead, caress him, touch and kiss him when he least expects it. If you find him gradually losing interest in sex or it seems a bit boring you can always roles-play or find different ways to make the sex hot, heavy and over all satisfying. Remember every man, including your husband needs a bit of chasing once in a while, so that they feel wanted and desirable. 

Words never lose its importance to keep a relationship going on a satisfying note. Never stop telling him how much you appreciate his way of making love. Make unexpected calls while he is at work and fix up a schedule for the night when you can be together. Contrary to popular belief, planned sex can also be equally interesting and satisfying. Pamper him when he is moving round the house - in other words, make your sexual intentions very clear to your husband, so that he too feels equally charged. To keep your husband sexually satisfied should never be viewed as a chore - in stead, you should look forward to making love to a man who you love and care for.

Do not always wait for him to take the initiative. He may be tired, stressed or simply has too many things on his mind. As a wife, be understanding and try to soothe his frayed nerves by words and action. 

Take your time. Some women think that men care only about lovemaking and not the process it requires. This is a wrong notion. Even as it is important for a man to orgasm, they also enjoy the process of romancing too. Men are crazy about the varieties of foreplay and it's easy for them to get bored if your lovemaking follows the same pattern over and over again. To easily change that all you need to do is change your sexual positions from time to time. Some positions can be more pleasurable for both of you, and you might find one which you haven't tried before that gives you extreme pleasure, so it's worth trying out new stuff. Men would really appreciate varieties of sex styles.

Don’t be stiff during love making – One of the things men complain about is that their woman doesn’t move in bed. “All she does is just lie there in which I’ve heard a lot of men say. Your man wishes to see that you’re flexible in moment. If you don’t seem like an active participant, it takes a lot of the fun away. Also, adding your own movements to his will increase his pleasure speedly, not to mention yours.

One thing which all men enjoy is oral sex. To really please your man sexually, you have to give him some good oral sex. Men are naturally grateful for women who do that. Make sure to take your time and experiment with different techniques. Having an excellent sex life is essential for the physical satisfaction of your partner as well as yourself. So be indulgent and keep him happy. This will make him feel that you are happy to stay with him. 

Three things that men hate to hear in the bedroom is:

• "I can't do that"
• "I won't do that"
• "I don't feel like doing that"

In no means am I saying over exert yourself to satisfy you man, sometimes our bodies just can't perform what our minds would like to, due to exhaustion. What I am saying is don't limit your possibilities in the bedroom. Believe me, the more you switch your technique and styles of love making the more satisfied your man is going to be.

Trust him: Men, or anyone for that instance, don't like someone keeping a track of their daily activities. Trust him and show him that you know he will be faithful to you.

Flirt with him: Flirting keeps your passion alive, and it is a vital part of any good relationship. You should keep the romance alive, and go on dates often.

Support him: Encourage him if he wants to try something new. Support him if he's going through a rough phase in life. Generally, men do not open up as easily as women do. If you talk to your man, chances are that he will talk back. Support him, and at the same time, respect his privacy.

Get a hobby: If you have a hobby of your own, you can keep yourself busy while your man is doing something else. This will keep you away from thinking negatively about your relationship.

If a man knows that he will get attention and love at home, he will not be anxious to find it elsewhere. It is true that some men cheat because they are always looking for excitement, but many men also choose commitment and faithfulness. In relationships, satisfaction is a must to keep your man and to keep him happy. If your man is not fully satisfied with you in one way or the other his mind begins to roam and he seeks that satisfaction through other sources.