HOW TO KNOW WHEN IT'S TIME TO BREAK UP

In a relationship there are good days and bad days. Sometimes you know for sure when it's time to break up. But other times you're not so sure. Should you move on or should you hang in there and give it a chance. 

No one knows exactly why we like or love the people we do. Sometimes one person develops strong feelings, and the other doesn't. Maybe they're just not all that into you. And it hurts, but its not anyone's fault. Affection and love can't be forced. The sooner you admit how you really feel, the sooner you can do something about it.



If your partner is embarrassed to bring you around or even to say that you two are dating, then you have a major problem. It may be time to end the relationship. 

You've been hurt physically and emotionally. Staying in an abusive relationship will only deepen those wounds with time, it won't heal them. Seek professional help if you don't know how to leave. 

After dating for a while you notice the relationship has no long-term potential. There is no talk of the future, no talk of marriage, kids or career. Ending it is likely the best thing for both of you. 

He is doing whatever he wants, whenever he wants without taking you into consideration. Big no no.

Your partner is constantly berating you. It's ok to fight now and again, and fighting can be healthy for a relationship once in a while if it helps you discuss your frustrations in a constructive manner. However, if your partner is always yelling at you, disagreeing with you, calling you names, and generally being cruel to you for no reason, then it's time to get out.

Being in a manipulative or controlling relationship is unhealthy. In order for the relationship to survive, the manipulative partner would need to dramatically change his or her behavior. If he or she won't, or can't, it would be wise to end it as soon as possible. 

If you're the one who always wants to be intimate and try to spice things up almost every time, then you may be in trouble. Don't be afraid to talk about it; Maybe your partner has intimacy issues. Whatever the problem is, you need to work on it or end things. 

If your partner tries to control you, who your friends are, how you behave, what to wear, how you spend your time- this is a giant waving red flag. Think about whether the relationship is worth pursuing at all.

Ending a relationship is never easy, even when you know it's the right thing to do.