Trying to have a relationship with an emotionally unavailable person is very frustrating. If you've ever been in a relationship with someone emotionally unavailable, you know the pain of not being able to get close to the one you love. Some use criticism, anger, or activities to create distance. You end up depressed, feeling alone, unimportant, or rejected.
It's not easy to spot an emotionally unavailable person. He may very well present himself in such a way to you that it makes you believe that he is ready for love. There is the added benefit that he can have some of the perks of a relationship without actually having to be around you most of the time.
Emotionally unavailable men come and go as they please. They provide little or no explanation of where they were when they were gone. They act as though you have no right to be upset when you heard nothing from them. He refuses to discuss his feelings for you and gets uncomfortable when you talk about yours.
Emotionally unavailable men come and go as they please. They provide little or no explanation of where they were when they were gone. They act as though you have no right to be upset when you heard nothing from them. He refuses to discuss his feelings for you and gets uncomfortable when you talk about yours.
Many end up marrying an emotionally unavailable person, only to become involved in a marriage that leaves them feeling unfulfilled and unloved. They'll feel that their needs and wants in the relationship aren’t being met; they may express more affection, care and commitment than they receive. Sometimes it seems the emotionally unavailable are lacking sensitivity or even basic human empathy but unlike someone who is deliberately trying to be mean or invoke a jealous reaction, they simply do not grasp they may be hurting someone.
The wives of emotionally unavailable men are very patient in the way they understand their spouse loves them, but he has problems expressing it.
While everyone can be emotionally distant at times, the emotionally unavailable person is a different creature entirely. Unfortunately, when it comes to matter of the heart, we don't always know the outcome. And not every connection is fated for happily ever after.
Should you find yourself with one of these, realize that without professional help and the desire to want to change for themselves, these sorts are never going to change because of you.
Never chase love, affection, or attention. If it isn't given freely by another person, it isn't worth having
Both men and women posses the trait to be emotionally unavailable. At the same time both posses the mentality to keep a distance between there loved ones. Some choose to show there attachment to someone physically were others show it mentally, at the same time some are blind to the visual or deaf or incoherent toto the verdal. Some people feel that there love ones are distant but they hold past discretions on the surface and look for a reason for the relationship to fail instead of reasons to succeed. By keeping these discretions on the surface and looking for the failure they creat a distance between there partner making them look emotionally unavailable. Some needs to be emotionally in tuned to themself before they can be in tuned to another. Love u writer. Xoxoxox
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