THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T TELL YOUR GIRLFRIENDS

It's good you want to share your life with your best friend or best friends. But sometimes certain things are off limits, especially when it comes to your relationships. Not every single detail about your relationship needs to be shared, sometimes things are best kept between you and your partner. Here are some important details that should not be shared amongst your friends.




SEX
Your friends should never know what occurs in the bedroom, living room or kitchen. I't's like Vegas, what happens there, stays there ;-). They should never know how well endowed or how small his peen size is, or better yet, what turns him on. If he's struggling to perform, it can be an embarrassing issue, which should only stay between you and him. Your friends may look at him in a different light, so remember only you can make your friends respect your partner.


FINANCIAL PROBLEMS
It's ok to talk to your friends about money problems of your own, but It's not ok to talk about your significant other's finances. They should not know about the status (unless he makes an heap load of money and you want to brag, but that will only make you look like a show off, and that you're only with him for his money). Money is a big deal, and it's a sensitive issue, so it's not something you want people knowing about.


FIGHTS
Sometime it's ok to tell your friends you got into a fight, because, you may need someone to talk to, or to get some good advise. But, you should never go into specific details, because sometimes the people you talk will eventually end up hating your partner and starts (if they haven't already) to wonder why are you still with him, then you'll have that nagging friend that tell you "you're stupid, you need to leave him, he's no good for you" blah blah blah, in the end only you can make that decision. What relationship doesn't have it's ups and down, so not everyone needs to know about every little spat you have.


HIS SECRETS
Because he loves and trusts you, he shares his secrets with you. Now, that doesn't mean you have to broadcast it to the world. You tell one friend, that one friend tell another friend and it goes on, and on and on, until it reaches back to your partner. Which will eventually cause a lot of problems in your relationship, because he'll feel he can't trust you anymore.


HE CHEATS ON YOU
If he cheats on you, and you're working it out, theres no need to share. You may forgive them, but your friends won't, and you don't need that constant reminder in your ears. Now if he cheats on you and you dumped him, now that's another story, feel free to do as you please.


Just remember loose lips sink relationships, plus the relationship is not called everybody, me and you.

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